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		<title>By: b. henson</title>
		<link>http://momgrind.com/2008/03/05/mom-jeans/#comment-16151</link>
		<dc:creator>b. henson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Aug 2009 21:22:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>if she still has a very shapely backside, what&#039;s wrong?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>if she still has a very shapely backside, what&#8217;s wrong?</p>
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		<title>By: Teen Fashion &#124;</title>
		<link>http://momgrind.com/2008/03/05/mom-jeans/#comment-14716</link>
		<dc:creator>Teen Fashion &#124;</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Jul 2009 01:44:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Vintage Bra Ad &#124;</title>
		<link>http://momgrind.com/2008/03/05/mom-jeans/#comment-14558</link>
		<dc:creator>Vintage Bra Ad &#124;</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Jul 2009 16:53:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: MomGrind</title>
		<link>http://momgrind.com/2008/03/05/mom-jeans/#comment-1563</link>
		<dc:creator>MomGrind</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Jun 2008 19:21:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ Jill: I agree with &quot;school appropriate&quot;. 

@ ironman: &quot;Why give up on yourself just because you have kids?&quot; - I agree. 

@ Jen: It&#039;s true that you don&#039;t need to wear unflattering clothes in order to look appropriate. 

@ hyrcan: &quot;Though I do think there is something that is limited to them and it’s this idea that when a woman has a child they cease to be a woman and suddenly become some strange creature called a “Mom” devoid any of the feelings, needs, desires of a woman.&quot; EXACTLY. And I don&#039;t think a mother should feel this way!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ Jill: I agree with &#8220;school appropriate&#8221;. </p>
<p>@ ironman: &#8220;Why give up on yourself just because you have kids?&#8221; &#8211; I agree. </p>
<p>@ Jen: It&#8217;s true that you don&#8217;t need to wear unflattering clothes in order to look appropriate. </p>
<p>@ hyrcan: &#8220;Though I do think there is something that is limited to them and it’s this idea that when a woman has a child they cease to be a woman and suddenly become some strange creature called a “Mom” devoid any of the feelings, needs, desires of a woman.&#8221; EXACTLY. And I don&#8217;t think a mother should feel this way!</p>
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		<title>By: hyrcan</title>
		<link>http://momgrind.com/2008/03/05/mom-jeans/#comment-1543</link>
		<dc:creator>hyrcan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Jun 2008 15:08:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Personally I don&#039;t think it should matter what people wear.  We each have our own sense of style, tastes and standards.  Wear &#039;mom jeans&#039; if you want.  Wear a short skirt.  It shouldn&#039;t matter.   

The problem lies in the why.  Why are you choosing to wear those pants?  Is it because you feel that as a mother you aren&#039;t allowed to look (and in some cases feel) attractive?  Are you wearing that mini-skirt because you want to meet the social ideal of beauty? 

As you can see the why behind what we wear, or expect others to wear is a bigger problem than what we actually have on.  

And it certainly isn&#039;t limited to women who have had children.

Though I do think there is something that is limited to them and it&#039;s this idea that when a woman has a child they cease to be a woman and suddenly become some strange creature called a &quot;Mom&quot; devoid any of the feelings, needs, desires of a woman.  

Although the situation you are in needs to be taken in consideration and appropriate attire is suggested.  You shouldn&#039;t wear the same dress at the kid&#039;s school that you&#039;d wear out at a dance club.  Though as others pointed out that&#039;s not a matter of being  &quot;mom appropriate&quot; but of being &quot;school appropriate.&quot;

&quot;A mother can be stylish and fabulous and sexy and interesting.&quot;   Without a doubt.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Personally I don&#8217;t think it should matter what people wear.  We each have our own sense of style, tastes and standards.  Wear &#8216;mom jeans&#8217; if you want.  Wear a short skirt.  It shouldn&#8217;t matter.   </p>
<p>The problem lies in the why.  Why are you choosing to wear those pants?  Is it because you feel that as a mother you aren&#8217;t allowed to look (and in some cases feel) attractive?  Are you wearing that mini-skirt because you want to meet the social ideal of beauty? </p>
<p>As you can see the why behind what we wear, or expect others to wear is a bigger problem than what we actually have on.  </p>
<p>And it certainly isn&#8217;t limited to women who have had children.</p>
<p>Though I do think there is something that is limited to them and it&#8217;s this idea that when a woman has a child they cease to be a woman and suddenly become some strange creature called a &#8220;Mom&#8221; devoid any of the feelings, needs, desires of a woman.  </p>
<p>Although the situation you are in needs to be taken in consideration and appropriate attire is suggested.  You shouldn&#8217;t wear the same dress at the kid&#8217;s school that you&#8217;d wear out at a dance club.  Though as others pointed out that&#8217;s not a matter of being  &#8220;mom appropriate&#8221; but of being &#8220;school appropriate.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;A mother can be stylish and fabulous and sexy and interesting.&#8221;   Without a doubt.</p>
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		<title>By: Jen</title>
		<link>http://momgrind.com/2008/03/05/mom-jeans/#comment-37</link>
		<dc:creator>Jen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Mar 2008 23:35:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think you do need to look &quot;appropriate&quot; at your kids&#039; school. But mom jeans is not appropriate - it&#039;s just ugly.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think you do need to look &#8220;appropriate&#8221; at your kids&#8217; school. But mom jeans is not appropriate &#8211; it&#8217;s just ugly.</p>
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		<title>By: ironman</title>
		<link>http://momgrind.com/2008/03/05/mom-jeans/#comment-33</link>
		<dc:creator>ironman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Mar 2008 20:15:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Those jeans are gross. Moms can be as hot as anyone. Why give up on yourself just because you have kids?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Those jeans are gross. Moms can be as hot as anyone. Why give up on yourself just because you have kids?</p>
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		<title>By: Jill</title>
		<link>http://momgrind.com/2008/03/05/mom-jeans/#comment-31</link>
		<dc:creator>Jill</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Mar 2008 19:02:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I probably do dress differently now that I&#039;m a mom. There are things I would wear when going out but not to mu kids&#039; school, so that&#039;s an important distinction as well. Not so much &quot;mom appropriate&quot; as &quot;school appropriate&quot;. 

But I do not own mom jeans and have no plans on going that route anytime soon.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I probably do dress differently now that I&#8217;m a mom. There are things I would wear when going out but not to mu kids&#8217; school, so that&#8217;s an important distinction as well. Not so much &#8220;mom appropriate&#8221; as &#8220;school appropriate&#8221;. </p>
<p>But I do not own mom jeans and have no plans on going that route anytime soon.</p>
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