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The concept of staycation – staying home and relaxing instead of going on an expensive, stressful vacation, makes more sense than ever during a global recession.

We still want to break away from our routine and recharge, but most of us are looking for frugal vacations rather than costly ones.

Staycations are easy and inexpensive. Vacations, on the other hand, tend to be complicated and costly. They often involve a lot of advance planning and many expenses, such as air travel, hotel, and car rental.

When it comes to air travel, it’s not just the expense I object to. I don’t know about you, but I hate to fly. I always hated flying. Being locked up in a small, pressurized cabin with no hopes of getting out until the plane lands has always made me more than a little nervous.

The added security measures and the gradual deterioration in customer service over the past decade are making the entire experience even worse. Of course, flying is also extremely unhealthy.

If it were up to me, I would never fly again.

Obviously, I sometimes have to fly. But when it comes to planning a vacation, in recent years the desire to avoid flights has certainly had an impact on my travel plans. Even if in our case, a staycation is not necessarily about actually staying home, I much prefer going someplace close to home over picking a far away destination that would force me to fly.

Recently, my husband and I spent a lovely long weekend staycationing in Half Moon Bay and in Carmel, California. Both locations are a mere 2-3 hours drive from our home in the San Francisco Bay Area. Instead of the elaborate vacations of years past (such as our visit to Barcelona and to Mercat de la Boqueria), which involved several flights and hotels, we picked a nearby destination that enabled us to really take it easy.

We spent one night in Half Moon Bay, where we enjoyed a gourmet dinner, followed by a lovely breakfast and a stroll along the beach the next morning. Yes, the Northern California beach is cold – you definitely need a jacket there, even in July:

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But it’s also pristine and magnificent:

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After breakfast, we drove along the beautiful, picturesque California Highway 1 to the Carmel area. On our way, we stopped at Ano Nuevo State Park. Hiking in the fresh air was pleasant, and watching the local elephant seals pick a fight with each other was hilarious:

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Taking in the views from the gorgeous highway was one of this road trip’s main attractions. We saw several historic bridges that were built during the Great Depression. The magnificent Bixby Bridge was one of them:

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We did indulge in fine dining – this is important to us. But we completely avoided shopping, which we hate (you just add more clutter to your house when you buy stuff. I hate clutter.)

By the end of the weekend, we were happy, relaxed, and ready to face the new week.

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Air travel is usually pricey and stressful. A staycation is the perfect solution for me.

A Rose Garden

by MomGrind

Every year in May, around the same time, our garden fills with colorful roses.

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There’s something comforting and reassuring about things that happen, predictably and without fail, every year. Just like traditions, they have a way of anchoring our lives, of being a constant in an ever-changing, fast-paced reality.

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There’s also something unsettling, maybe even a little upsetting, in realizing that another year has already gone by, especially since the older you get, the faster time seems to go by.

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For a blogger, it’s always interesting to write about the same topic year after year, then compare old posts to new ones. My rose post from last year is quite similar to this one, except that I got myself a better camera a few months ago.

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Other old posts, such as this post for International Women’s Day 2008, which is very different than my post for International Women’s Day 2009, make me cringe and think I have come a long way as a blogger.

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Cringing when reading old posts is actually a good thing. It means you’re growing and developing as a blogger and as a writer.

 

Yellow roses are still my favorite flower. :)

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The first rose of the season suddenly bloomed in our garden today. I saw it this morning when I went out to the back yard. It was tiny and red and very well hidden:

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I was feeling cold and grumpy as I hurried down the path to the trash cans, and then I saw it and my face lit up with a smile: the very first rose of the season.

We recently found out that our little one (she’s seven. Can I still call her little? I think I can) has severe seasonal allergies. Nothing we can’t manage or handle, but it does make me look at spring through very different eyes. Whereas before I was happy and excited about all the colors and scents, I now feel suspicious and weary of them.

Still, it’s difficult not to love spring, even if flowering plants releasing tiny pollens are suddenly the enemy. And the thing I love most about spring is to watch my garden fill with beautiful, colorful, fragrant roses.

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Seen during a recent visit to the San Francisco Museum of Modern Art:

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“’Fountain’ was what Duchamp called a readymade, an object elevated to the status of art not because he had created it, but because he had chosen it.”

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California is facing the most significant water crisis in its history. Winter 2008-2009 is the third dry year for the State. Water reserves are extremely low. There’s even talk about the State imposing water rationing on farmers, homes and businesses. In addition, drought conditions have created a situation of extreme fire danger, already the worst fire season in the State’s history.

 

It’s been raining almost the entire week and should continue raining well into the weekend and next week. I’m not sure if these rains are going to help with water levels in reservoirs (the dry land will probably soak at least some of the water), or save us from water rationing, but having breakfast in the kitchen this morning while watching our backyard being drenched in water made us very, very happy.

A REALLY Bad Driver

by MomGrind

I was picking my kids up from school today, as I do every day. Today however was a tad more exciting than usual when I saw THIS in the car in front of me:

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At first I thought it was someone in the back seat, but I’m pretty sure it’s the driver herself.

Impressive, don’t you think?

(This is a rhetoric question as comments are closed. Of course it’s impressive).

Old, But Still Moving

by MomGrind

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Of course I had to snap a photo of this license plate.

I then asked my husband to SLOWLY pass the car so that I could take a good look at the driver.

The driver was an old man – probably in his mid seventies.

Old and feisty. I like that. I often say that I never want to make it past the age of 70 because of the inevitable physical deterioration. I know, I’m an idiot, and this license plate served as an important reminder that one can be old, spirited and funny.